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Rhianna vanTeylingen Obituary

Rhianna was a student at Doherty High School and also a dance student at Jillian's for several years. She was a joyful soul and was loved by so many. She had reached a happy place in her short life, enjoying her car, her new job, succeeding in high school, and spending time with friends. We are so proud of our dear sweet Rhianna. Rhianna was injured in a car accident on March 22. She fought very hard for a week, but her injuries were so severe that she could not survive. The blow was great, the shock wever, We little thought the end was near. And only those who have lost can tell, The pain of parting without farewell. It broke our hearts to lose you, But you did not go alone. A part of us went with you, The day God called you home. Nothing can ever take away, The love a heart holds dear. Fond memories linger every day, Remembrance keeps Rhianna near. Rhianna is survived by her mother Devra vanTeylingen; her sister Deja Garnett; her father Ben Callwood; Grandparents Jim and Judy vanTeylingen, Joyce Lettsome, and Grandma Bill Garnett; Cousins Rika, Alysha, Tyler and Mason; Step-mother Silke Callwood; Step-parents Greg and Amy Garnett; step-siblings; and many aunts, uncles, second cousins, her large extended family and friends. Her memorial service will be held at 4:00 p.m. on Thursday, April 2, at Shove Chapel on the Colorado College Campus (1010 North Nevada Ave.). Some parking is available in the lot at Nevada and San Rafael. The family is eternally grateful for the support of friends and everyone who helped us through the week at the PICU. In lieu of flowers, if you are so inclined, a donation to Rhianna's Memorial Fund to help with medical costs would be greatly appreciated (c/o Colorado Springs Credit Union).

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Published by The Gazette on Apr. 2, 2009.

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Laurie Taylor

May 5, 2009

Devra, I'm so sorry to hear about Rhianna's passing. I'm just heart broken for you. I can't understand how someone so young, beautiful and full of potential can be taken at such a young age. I remember seeing her just days before the accident, you were telling me about how well she was doing in school and with the new job. I was so impressed with the wonderful daughter you raised. Call me if you need anything, a shoulder to cry on or drinks and laugh about the good times. Cherish all the memories, she may be gone but never forgotten.
I love you.

Kirsten Cooper

April 27, 2009

I don't even know what to say.
I went to sabin and Doherty with Rhianna
We had math together, She was always so great to be around, we only hung out a few times out of school but it was always fun. She is a great person, I can't beleive she is gone. I'm so sorry for your loss, for everyones loss, we are all missing out on getting to know her better.

Carrissa Beckett

April 27, 2009

Rhianna has been my best friend for years, we learned everything together, laughed uncontrollably, and grew up together. All the pictures in the world could not replace our memories. I miss you Rhi && will see you again when the time is right. Im still parying for you Devra, Rhianna loved you more than anything on this earth & will watch over you & Deja forever! I love you guys & am still praying.

Darcie, Pat, Joey and Danny Nagle

April 25, 2009

To the VanTeylingen family
We are former neighbors of Judy and remember well when Rhianna and Deja used to come over and play with our boys.. such beautiful, sweet girls! We recently found out about your loss and were so saddened and want to pass on our condolences. You are all in our prayers.

Michele Balin

April 24, 2009

Oh Devra, Laurie just told me what happened. I am so so sorry for the loss of your beautiful Rhianna ;( God, my heart is breaking. The news immediately brought tears to my eyes. I don’t even know what to say, as I’m sure there is nothing that anyone can, but I just wanted to let you know that I am thinking about you. God bless you and your family now and forever.

Jacqe'e Jackson

April 24, 2009

My name is Jacqe'e Jackson, I go to Mitchell High School. Rhianna and I went to Irving together, but never talked, never really even knew eachother in fact. I only knew of her through some friends. Since Rhianna is about 6 months older that me, hearing about this tragic event, had a big impact on how I look at life today. Since life is way too short, we must cherish all the beautifull times we've had, and keep moving on. I keep Rhianna and all of her family in my prayers! May god bless!

Louise McQuary

April 8, 2009

Devra
I am so, so sorry to hear of this terrible tragedy. She was so beautiful and so sweet when I last saw her visiting you in the shop. I will keep that memory of her. My thoughts are with you every day and I pray that you will find peace in your memories of her. Love, Louise McQuary

DEBBIE MCCULLOUGH

April 7, 2009

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.

Charlene Campbell

April 4, 2009

Dear Ones,
I am Aaron Campbell's grandmother--he was in the accident with your daughter. My heart has been so heavy for you, and your family. Our thoughts and most certainly our prayers have been with you.

Maya Schell

April 3, 2009

Devra,
I love you so much, I am so sorry that you and your family have had to go through this. There are no words I can say to express my sadness or your loss. Know that I am here for you and your family.

Steve and Carol

April 3, 2009

I am Lolly's brother-in-law; our family is so saddened by the news of Rhianna's death. Although we did not know her personally, we know she was very close to Lolly, my brother Mike, Rika, Alysha and Mason. Our thoughts are with you. May your memories be forever cherished.

Pete Felix

April 3, 2009

Devra, I'm so sorry for your loss. what a beautilull flower girl Rhianna was at mine and Tracy's wedding. you will see her again , a perfect angel. love always...........pete

Chris Offutt

April 2, 2009

To Rhianna's family,
I am Lolly's sister in law, and I can't tell you how my heart went out to you all when I heard about the accident. Although I never met her, I heard her name mentioned often, and I know she was dearly loved. My thoughts are with you all.

Jerome Chavez

April 2, 2009

Devra and family,
My prayers are with you and will be for a very long time. Being a parent I cant even begin to think how hard this must be for you.
Unfortunately I did not meet Rhianna until the night of her accident. I live up the street from where it happened. I heard the accident and the cries for help. My friend called 911 and I raced as fast as I could to try to find out where it was. When I got there I was the first one there. I am truly sorry there was nothing I could do for her or the driver. I did pray for them as soon as i could once help started to arrive.
There's not a day that goes by that i don't think of your daughter and her friend. It sounds like she brought a smile to the many people she had in her life. May God bless you and your family forever. Stay strong and have faith in the lord to get you though this rough time.

Jerome Chavez

Elena Montoya

April 2, 2009

Devra, I haven't seen you for awhile but I love you as much as ever. I am so sorry for your loss. I just heard about Rhianna from Chance I. on facebook. The last time I saw you you said you had a baby girl... I am praying for you, your family and your baby who left too soon. I will call when I feel it's okay to. I love you, Elena Montoya

Jorge Dohnert

April 2, 2009

Dearest Devra and Deja,
Our family is so sorry and socked to hear what has happened to yours. Rhianna has light in her that will never go out, even though we have not been part of your lives for long she along with the rest of your family will be with us for a life time. We hope that time will heal your wounds and mend your hearts.
With much love the Dohnert, Parson Family

Michelle G

April 2, 2009

Rhianna,
I've known you since forth grade. I remember the first time i had ever came to your house, it was me you and miranda and even though we were all sick, we were out on the trampoline, playing mall madness.
I went to see you in the hospital and when i saw you laying there it broke my heart. After that, i called to check in on you all the time. It became an obbsesion to know how you were and if i was going to see you anytime soon. I didn't get that chance, you were gone in a week.
It still hasn't all hit me. It just feels like a terrible dream and i'm still waiting to wake up. Untill that day, I love you and i will always be thinking of you.
I love you boo.

Derrek Villagrana

April 2, 2009

Even Though Rhianna's gone she will never be forgotten. i got lucky enough to be in and around your guy's family almost everyday for 7 months, from the cookouts to the big christmas party you guys have every year at the golf club. never will i forget those memories and one of the main reason's is because Rhianna always made me laugh and always put a smile on my face. from the silly things she said to her facial expressions. And i just wanna thank your family for letting me come and see her in the hospital in her last moments. i will never forget her. My heart goes out to your whole family Devra. God bless you for being so strong throughout this whole thing. You and your Family will be in my prayers...

love,
Derrek Villlagrana

Katherine Hughes

April 2, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I only new Rhianna for a short time when she was a day student at Doherty. But she touched my heart from day one.

I am truely sorry that you are having to go through this.

Kristine Wiederholt

April 2, 2009

devra i wish you and deja only the sincerest of condoloenses. I havent been a major part of your life for a while but I always keep you in prayer. I can only hope that your memories wil comfort you in this time of sadness, We love you and will continue to pray for you and your family. We love you,Kristine,Aaron,Dylan,Kaleb,Hannah Wiederholt

April 2, 2009

Devra
I know we havent seen each other for quiet sometime but when I heard my heart absolutly broke for you and your family. I have been praying for all of you everyday sometimes 5 times a day that the Lord will comfort you and your family during this extremely painful time.I also will continue to pray that he will give you strength and see you through this. I am deeply sorry this has happened.My thoughts are with you.

Gina Rivera

(Phenix salon)

Leon & Maria Solis

April 2, 2009

We only knew Rhianna by name through our grandaughter Dinae. Our thoughts & prayers are with you. Heaven must have been short an angle to take Rhianna away. Now is not the time to look for answers for no answer can satisfy our questions. Even though we miss her dearly,her soul is up above. We Will always cherish her laughter and most af all her great smile. Good-bye Rhianna, the time has come. Your new life has only just begun. In Memory of Rhianna

Jenny Bates

April 2, 2009

No heartache can compare, she was just so young. Why GOD called her home... it's hard to understand, she'll be watching over all who loved her. Beautiful Angel Rhianna! I will always keep you and your fam in my prayers, and memories in my heart. -LOVE Jenny

Julie Salisbury

April 2, 2009

Devra, (And all of Rhianna's family)
I can't explain the sadness I feel for your loss. I am so sorry. I wish I had words to comfort. I will keep you near my heart and in my prayers always.
Love,
Julie Salisbury (and family)

Ashley Ebbens

April 2, 2009

Rhianna i remeber moving here and you and i were brand new in Mr Fabey's class and we just had met eachother that day and we got along so well. I remeber i would come to your house after school and we would always hang out and and eat Direto Cereal lol and jump on the trampoline. U were my bes friend then we grew apart but i never forgot about you. Now your safe and peaceful and up in hevaen and looking down on everyone. Your mom and sister will make it. We miss you very much and I love you sissy!

Steve Witter

April 2, 2009

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

Cindy Shankland and Nick Jimenez

April 2, 2009

I only knew Rhianna by name through my son Nick and his friend Curtis.

It breaks my heart to know that a wonderful young person is gone from this world. Here's to hoping you can look back on the wonderful memories you shared with her.

On behalf of me and my son Nick Jimenez, may peace and strength find their way into your hearts during this time of sorrow.

Our deepest sympathy!

JENNIFER / AMBER BEENE

April 2, 2009

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2009

Nikki (Chris & Dana's cousin) Witter-Gortner

April 2, 2009

Devra,
Words cannot express how sad I am for you and your family. I can't pretend to even imagine that I know what you are going through right now. Just try to take solace in the fact that your friends and family are always here for you, and Rhianna's memory will always be alive within their hearts. She will never be forgotten.

carrie reyes

April 2, 2009

To Rhianna's family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Evan always said Rhianna was a nice and beautiful girl......Evan and his Mom Carrie Reyes

Brittany Duryee

April 2, 2009

I went to elementary school with Rhianna at Madison and part of middle school with her at Irving. When heard of the accident I was deeply shocked. To think of how young she was and how many things
there are that she'll never get to see it breaks my heart.I'm just glad I had the chance to know her. My prayers are with you and your family.

Cassie Beckett

April 2, 2009

Rhianna, I love and will miss you so much~Please help my sister through this hard time she is going through as it is not easy for her to see you go, I will never forget the first time you came over to our house...You are now everyones angel that will be greatly missed and in our hearts. Keep that beautiful smile of yours shining down on us, I love you Rhianna.
Devra and Deja, I am very sorry for your loss, You are in my prayers!

Angel Kadrmas-Vinatieri

April 2, 2009

to the VanTeylingen family,
I have known Lolly for years, and I pray for you and yor entire family for this loss. A great loss of a young woman set for greatness. You are in my thoughts and prayers always.

nikki schoonover

April 2, 2009

My sister in law Cassey Schoonover was best friends with Rhianna and we are truely sorry for your loss. Rhianna came to our house often with Cassey and she truely was the sweetest girl ever.She will be truely missed. Our prayers go out to you and your family during this difficult time

Sue Nelson

April 2, 2009

Devra & Deja
Devra this was adapted just for you and Deja. My sister presented this to me to help me in my hard times.


Remember Rhianna
Remember Rhianna when flowers bloom
Early in the spring
Remember Rhianna on sunny days
in the fun that summer brings
Remember Rhianna in the fall
As you walk through leaves of gold
And remember Rhianna in the wintertime
in the stories that are told
But most of all remember each day right from the start
Rhianna will be forever near for she will live within your heart.



My love Sue Nelson

April 2, 2009

May God carry you and your broken heart. The heaven's are singing and the world is mourning.

Peace and Love be with you,
Elaine Mercil

ANTOINETTE McCORD

April 2, 2009

RHIANNA YOU WERE AN GOOD PERSON, PEOPLE ALWAYS WANTED TO BE AROUND YOU, STEP WAS FUN FOR THE LITTLE BIT OF TIME YOU WERE THERE. YOU ARE SORELY MISSED BY A LOT OF PEOPLE.. GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY.. AMBER AND ANTOINETTE MCCORD

Courtney and Frank Knight

April 2, 2009

Devra,
I just saw Rhianna at the salon a few weeks ago. She was so happy. Rhianna had her hair down and all I could keep saying to her how pretty her hair was. She was really maturing into a beautiful flower.
I will never forget when we went camping and she drove me to the store. She was so excited to drive.
I love you Devra and I am truly sorry for your loss. You and Deja are in our prayers.
Love Courtney and Frank

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